Coping & Tools

Tools for difficult moments and clinical worksheets

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Breathing 2 min

Box Breathing

A four-square breathing pattern that calms the nervous system in under 2 minutes.

Breathing 3 min

Pursed-Lip Breathing

Slows and deepens your breath by extending the exhale through pursed lips.

Breathing 5 min

Diaphragmatic Breathing

Train your body to breathe from the abdomen to activate the parasympathetic nervous system.

Breathing 5 min

Alternate-Nostril Breathing

Balance the nervous system by alternating breath between nostrils (nadi shodhana).

Breathing 5 min

Belly Breathing

Breathe deeply into your belly to reduce stress and calm your body.

Breathing 10 min

Coherent Breathing

Extend inhale and exhale to six seconds each to enter a deeply relaxed state.

Breathing 5 min

4-7-8 Breathing

A natural tranquilizer for the nervous system using a 4-7-8 breath count.

Grounding 5 min

5-4-3-2-1 Grounding

Use your senses to anchor yourself in the present moment.

Environment 1 min

Cold Water Splash

Cold water activates the dive response, quickly reducing emotional intensity.

Reflection 10 min

Urge Surfing

Observe a craving like a wave — it rises, peaks, and passes without acting on it.

Connection 10 min

Reach Out to a Supporter

Text or call someone from your support circle.

Movement 10 min

Quick Walk

A brief walk changes your environment and releases tension.

Reflection 5 min

Gratitude List

Write down things you are grateful for to shift perspective.

Reflection 5 min

Play the Tape Forward

Visualize the full sequence of what happens if you act on the urge.

Rest 10 min

Progressive Muscle Relaxation

Tense and release muscle groups to release stored tension.

Reflection 2 min

HALT Check

Check if you are Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired — basic needs that mimic cravings.

Grounding 5 min

Safe Place Visualization

Mentally visit a calm, safe place to regulate your nervous system.

Creative 10 min

Journal It Out

Write whatever comes to mind to process emotions and reduce their intensity.